Kjell Hedblom

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  WHAT DID YOU HATE about being an elder, m.s.,pione

  by minimus in

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  i hated all the elders who thought they had to tell someone what had to be done and they themselves weren't doing it.

  what about you?

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  Kjell Hedblom

  As an Elder I hated almost everything that has been told already!

  But mostly I hated when I had my Bookstudiegroup and I saw the Sisters trying to compit about having my attention and trying hard to be the one that i would choose as my favourite.They all tryed in different ways to flatter me. Saying nice things outside the ordinary stuff,giving me things and so on.

  And I had a big group (nowdays they should be maybe 10-15 in the group) But I had 42 (if everyone showed up).But that never happend.I think we were 33 as most.

  But I loved everyone equally.For me they were all worth my all attention. And it took me some time to go out in the fieldservice with everyone in the group,but I did. And some of the sisters they couldnt wait for the next time.Most of those were sisters that were living alone with a kid or 2. And I did take care 7 of them trying to be like a father for them,not only going out in the fieldservices with them but also try to do something more funny like taking them out to some amusement. (Ofcourse I didnt hate doing that,we had alot of fun and they just loved that)

  But that is history now.I am out and that is probably finally

  Hugs to u all from Kjell H
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  Lots of Jehovah Bashing in Here

  by Perfection Seeker in

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  i think when people leave the organization, they lump it all together- jehovah- religion, organization, etc.

  i am not doubtful there is a god, but just doubtful that he used the wts to be his one & only means.

  just wanted to say that.

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  MELISSA!!

  You are so right in what you are saying in all your posts! I understand everythoughts that you are saying and I agree in all of them.Your believes ar personal and NO-ONE should try to take away them.

  I just wanted to say that.

  Even more Hugs from me and my Family!!

  Kjell Hedblom
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  Bad news?

  by happy man in

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  i find this on unother bord.. .

  i have it on reliable source that one of the founding jws in.

  japan, who has been serving as a branch coordinator, was.

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  HAPPY MAN!!

  Very interesting news.Please keep ua all informed if u get some more news about this!

  Hugs from Kjell H
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  HOT NEWS!! Disfellowshipped?- Top Japanese JW!!

  by stevieb1 in

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  according to a posting by "ros" on www.channelc.org it is rumoured that the former branch committee co-ordinator of the watchtower society's branch in japan has recently been disfellowshipped.

  of course this is hot news!!!

  his name is toshio honma and is probably one of the highest ranking jw's in that country.

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  STEVIEB 1!!

  Very interesting indeed!! Keep us al informed!

  Kjell H
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  How Common is this amongst JW's?

  by stevieb1 in

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  i found this material on a pro-jw newsletter, and i've had this personal experience myself and know many others who have also.

  before i became a jw i experienced a tremendous amount of "love" from the congregation i associated with, but once baptized they leave and move on to the next potential convert.

  as a single person, i was never invited out to gatherings very much and always felt a little left out in the very clique-ish congregation that i attended.

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  WINDCHASER!!

  Hi again! Lol,Ludfisk is spelled Lutfisk in swedish and we normally dont have that until late November and mostly December.So in Sweden we have to wait until then to est it.But it taste gooooood!!! And about the name of Johnson,yep u are right thats a very commend name in Sweden but mostly they spelled it Jonsson or Johnsson and its a name that Many many people have so it not easy to find a relative.

  Hugs again to you and your love ones

  from Kjell hedblom with Family
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  How Common is this amongst JW's?

  by stevieb1 in

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  i found this material on a pro-jw newsletter, and i've had this personal experience myself and know many others who have also.

  before i became a jw i experienced a tremendous amount of "love" from the congregation i associated with, but once baptized they leave and move on to the next potential convert.

  as a single person, i was never invited out to gatherings very much and always felt a little left out in the very clique-ish congregation that i attended.

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  WINDCHASER!!

  Nice to read your post! You are fare away from Sweden but through Internet we got really close.Isnt that nice.

  Many Hugs from

  Kjell Hedblom with Family!
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  How Common is this amongst JW's?

  by stevieb1 in

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  i found this material on a pro-jw newsletter, and i've had this personal experience myself and know many others who have also.

  before i became a jw i experienced a tremendous amount of "love" from the congregation i associated with, but once baptized they leave and move on to the next potential convert.

  as a single person, i was never invited out to gatherings very much and always felt a little left out in the very clique-ish congregation that i attended.

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  AJAX MAN!!

  I just say AMEN to your comments!

  Kjell H.
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  to scream or not to scream

  by Incense_and_Peppermints in

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  jw women have a greater need than jw men to stay ever vigilant and attentive of the watchtower's back and forth rules and regulations which they have the nerve to teach is "new light" from god.

  depending on the "new light" from the governing body, if she doesn't scream during a rape, she will be charged by the elders as an adulteress ... someone who may have actually 'enjoyed' the violent act because of her silence.

  if another jw woman was raped in 1969 and she didn't scream, she would not be disfellowshipped.

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  I really dont have any comments to this.It all speaks for it self!

  Kjell hedblom
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  How Common is this amongst JW's?

  by stevieb1 in

  1. jw
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  i found this material on a pro-jw newsletter, and i've had this personal experience myself and know many others who have also.

  before i became a jw i experienced a tremendous amount of "love" from the congregation i associated with, but once baptized they leave and move on to the next potential convert.

  as a single person, i was never invited out to gatherings very much and always felt a little left out in the very clique-ish congregation that i attended.

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  STEVIEB1!!

  I am from Sweden and I can tell u that this is very common in my Country and ofcource everywhere. I have been in 6 different congregations during my 44 years in JW from the North of Sweden to the South.It is very easy to be left out,like the way u experienced.Many are those that been through that.

  It is sad to admit that it is often that it needs that one already done something "bad" to get the attention from the Elders when they are Blind and dont rush to help when one start drifting away. Ofcource not every Elder are like this,there is alot of good ones out there but its always like a lottery.If u are lucky then you are in a good C. but if not u easily get punished instead of getting help in time from

  Elders that have real love to the flock.

  About been Ignored:Yep that have happend to me and my Family many times just as the example said. It did happend especially after I did step down as an Elder 1990.

  Now I am out since 1 month back so I dont care anymore.My wife is still in but she havnt heard one word from anyone since 30 May ( she have not been to any meetings since my D.F.) but ofcource nobody cares of her needs. Many JW they dont have real love in their hearts,its just a mask on the outside.

  Take care my friend

  Hugs from Kjell Hedblom
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  Inactive 3yr, baptised & "expecting&qu...

  by lofromchicago in

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  i have been a lurker for quite some time now (3 years maybe), and i vist the site a few times every couple of months.

  however, a situation has presented itself and i need to talk to someone.

  my "story" from 3 years ago is posted on http://www.jwfiles.com/jws-leaving/paul.html for some background info (i'm 26 now).

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  LOFROMCHICAGO!!

  Hi there! I think you cant eat the cookie and still have it!?

  Take care.

  Hugs from Kjell Hedblom